… that makes me want to commit suicide immediately!! Ok, that is over reaction, insane, and I don’t want to suicide just because that silly thing.
Every time I talk about marriage especially to some people, I always become angry. Maybe because I hate this culture or public opinion that when someone doesn’t get married, especially woman, she’ll be miserable and lonely. Or another opinion that woman must *or as Howard Wolowitx of TBBT said, it’s highly recommended* get married before her age reaches 25 years old, otherwise very few man will like her.
Those are garbage! Not getting married doesn’t mean miserable. There are a lot of women who don’t get married until the day they die, and they’re still happy. Yes, of course they would always dream about having a husband, someone to share their live with, someone whom they spend the night with. Yes, there’s hope that Mr. Right finally come to their lives. I don’t refuse that fact. What I really really hate is when everybody thinks that is miserable life. Hell to the no! Your life won’t be miserable if you can enjoy it, if you love yourself first, if you can find happiness in everything you do, in everything that surrounds you. You won’t be lonely unless you let yourself so.
And what is that crap thing about getting married before 25? Yeah yeah I know woman has her biological time which clicking louder and louder after her age reaches 25. Yes I know, the risk of giving birth after 30 is getting higher and higher, and woman can develop more serious illness by doing so. But that doesn’t make you a husband hunter in your early twenties. That absolutely doesn’t allow anyone to push you to get married. So what if man doesn’t like woman whose age is 27? So what if you’re still single in 28?
Marriage is NOT just about sex and children. Marriage is NOT just about having fun and then being happy, guys! You have to work it out. You have to work your ass out to have a happy and successful marriage. You can not think that everything will be okay, that you should just do it and see what’s gonna happen.
So if you don’t want to get married before 30 *assuming that you have your own plan to get married at specific age*, or you want to get married with some specific man *by specific I mean his personality* and you still haven’t found that kind of guy yet, don’t be rushed!
And people, please it’s 21st century now. It’s 3rd millenium, where the Eastern and Western culture have assimilated into each other. Yes, marriage is important, yes it’s nice to share our life with someone who’s worth it, but don’t push it too hard. It sucks, you know that?!